man in the mirror

Your glass twin

Man in the mirror refers to one's own reflection, used figuratively to mean oneself as an object of honest self-examination.

The phrase gained wide currency from the 1988 Michael Jackson song urging personal responsibility and self-improvement.

When someone says they need to take a look at the man in the mirror, they mean confronting their own behavior or character rather than blaming others.

The expression emphasizes accountability and the idea that meaningful change starts with oneself.

introspection

self-reflection

Examining one's own mind

contemplation · self-scrutiny · self-discovery · self-questioning · self-improvement · accountability · honesty · conscience · inner voice · personal growth

song

Michael Jackson

1988 · Quincy Jones · epic · power ballad · Grammy · number one · vocal performance · gospel choir · piano · emotional

imagery

reflection

Returned light or thought

  • glassTransparent solid from sand
  • gazeFixed, intent look
  • faceHead's anterior surface

eyes · truth · revelation · confrontation · recognition · image · shadow · self-portrait · window to the soul

change

transformation

Thorough change in form

resolution · responsibility · action · making a difference · new beginning · redemption · renewal · choice · willpower · initiative

Opposites
self vs. other

man in the mirrorsomeone else

Any other individual

them · others · everybody else · society · strangers

introspection vs. external blame

man in the mirrorscapegoat

Unfairly blamed person

the system · fall guy · bogeyman · whipping boy · they

reflection vs. reality

man in the mirrorflesh and blood

One's close relatives

the real thing · physical reality

Family

mirror, manliness, manhood, mankind, manful, mirrors, mirrored, mirroring

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G