laid down the law

Demanded strict compliance

To lay down the law is to assert authority by stating rules or expectations firmly and without room for negotiation.

Parents lay down the law to children; bosses lay down the law to employees.

The phrase suggests commanding rather than requesting: After the party got out of hand, she laid down the law about future guests.

Related

govern · legislate · discipline · regulate · set boundaries · admonish · mandate · assert · impose · read the riot act · my way or the highway · instruct · warn · decree · reprimand · ultimatum · final word · adjudicate

Opposites
authority assertion

laid down the lawdeferred

Set aside until later

acquiesced · yielded · hinted · requested · tiptoed around

control vs. permissiveness

laid down the lawlooked the other way

Deliberately avoided noticing

turned a blind eye · bent the rules · indulged · spoiled · loosened up

communication style

laid down the lawnegotiated

Reached terms through discussion

compromised · yielded · backed down · caved in · gave in

Family

laid, down, laying, layers, downer, downs, downed, downing, download

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G