gender bender

Defies sex norms

Gender bender describes a person who defies conventional gender expectations—through appearance, behavior, or identity.

The term emerged in the 1980s for those who mixed masculine and feminine presentation: David Bowie was the ultimate gender bender.

It can also describe media that plays with gender roles or anything that challenges binary assumptions.

The related gender-bending works as an adjective: a gender-bending performance.

performance

drag queen

Theatrical feminine performer

lip-sync · impersonation · costume · disguise · masquerade · transformation · alter ego · theatrical · glamour · sequins

identity

nonbinary

Outside male-female categories

fluidity · queer · spectrum · expression · ambiguity · unisex · intersex · identity · transcendence · presentation

subversion

nonconformity

Rejection of prevailing norms

provocation · boundary-crossing · taboo · counterculture · radical · unconventional · challenge · disruption · shock value

Opposites
gender conformity

gender benderconformist

One following accepted norms

traditionalist · straight-laced · conventional · binary · heteronormative

social transgression

gender benderconformist

One following accepted norms

conservative · conventionalist · stuffed shirt · normie · vanilla

Family

gender, genders, gendered, gendering, genderless, transgender, cisgender, bend, bender

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