finger-wag

Chiding hand motion

Finger-wagging is the gesture of shaking an extended index finger back and forth at someone, typically to scold, warn, or express disapproval.

The motion mimics saying "no" and carries a tone of moral superiority or condescension: She gave him a finger-wag when he reached for another cookie.

As a verb, to finger-wag is to lecture or admonish in a self-righteous manner: Politicians love to finger-wag about family values.

rebuke

reprimand

Formal expression of disapproval

berate · upbraid · castigate · denounce · reproach · scold · criticize · blame · accuse · condemn

warning

caution

Careful attention to risk

deter · discourage · dissuade · signal · alert · remind · advise · prohibit · forbid

scolding

chiding

Voicing mild disapproval

reprimand · reproach · lecture · moralizing · sermonizing · shaming · nagging · hectoring · telling-off · dressing-down

condescending

patronizing

Treating someone as inferior

disdainful · haughty · self-righteous · judgmental · holier-than-thou · preachy · sanctimonious · priggish · know-it-all · supercilious

authoritative

stern

Strict or ship's aft

bossy · assertive · domineering · imperious · dictatorial · disciplinarian · schoolmarm · matriarchal · patriarchal

gesture

point

Exact location or meaning

  • shakeTrembling or blended treat
  • waveOscillating motion through medium
  • motionChange in position

nonverbal · admonishing · brandish · emphatic · theatrical · animated · expressive · pantomime

Opposites
approval vs disapproval gesture

finger-wagthumbs-up

Gesture indicating approval

applause · standing ovation · pat on the back · high-five · fist bump

permissiveness vs restriction

finger-waggreen light

Authorization to proceed

go-ahead · blessing · permission · carte blanche · open invitation

tone of response

finger-wagpraise

Expression of approval

commendation · attaboy · encouragement · endorsement · kudos

Family

finger, wag, fingers, fingered, fingering, fingerless, wagged, wagging, wags

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G