emotional availability
Open to connect
Emotional availability describes the capacity to be present and responsive to another person's feelings.
A parent with emotional availability notices when their child is distressed and offers comfort.
In relationships, it means being open to connection rather than withdrawn or defensive: He's physically present but not emotionally available.
The term often surfaces when someone lacks this quality—unavailable partners, distant parents, or friends too consumed by their own struggles to engage with yours.
- presenceState of being somewhere
- attunementHarmonious receptive connection
- tuned inAttentive and aware
- warmthHeat you feel
- responsivenessReadiness to react
holding space · openness · open heart · connection · receptive · tender · accessible · nurturing · sensitivity · empathy · vulnerable · inner child · supportive · deep listening · listening · closeness · intimacy · caring
- relationshipsfriends, romantic, family, friend, flirting
- emotional laborsuppression, masking, comforting, consoling, soothing
- attachmentsecure attachment, attachment style, attachment styles, attachment theory, secure base
emotional availabilityemotional unavailability
Inability to engage emotionally
emotional withdrawal · stonewalling · shutting down · emotional distance · closed off
emotional availabilityemotional neglect
Failure to meet feeling-needs
unresponsiveness · dismissiveness · inattentiveness · tuning out · apathy
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