collecting oneself

Steadying one's nerves

Collecting oneself means regaining composure after being flustered, emotional, or caught off guard.

The image is of scattered thoughts or feelings being gathered back together: She took a moment to collect herself before responding.

Often appears as collect yourself in the imperative, urging someone to calm down.

Related

taking a breath · gathering thoughts · getting centered · self-control · steadying · steady nerves · clarity · resilience · patience · inner calm · awareness · staying present · preparation · acceptance · attentiveness · centering · mindfulness · equanimity

Opposites
emotional composure

collecting oneselffalling apart

Gradually breaking into pieces

panicking · losing it · breaking down · freaking out · losing control

mental focus

collecting oneselflosing focus

Inability to concentrate

blanking out · drawing a blank · spacing out · zoning out

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G