chat up

Flirt with someone

Chat up means to engage someone in light, friendly conversation, often with flirtatious or persuasive intent.

In British usage especially, to chat someone up is to flirt: He spent the evening chatting up women at the bar.

The phrase can also mean simply talking to someone in a casual, engaging way: She chatted up the receptionist while waiting.

flirtation

flirt

Playfully attract attention

smooth talker · coy · tease · wink · seduce · amorous · playful · enticing · allure · flattery

conversation

banter

Playful, teasing exchange

exchange · heart-to-heart · tête-à-tête · discussion · confabulation · colloquy · gab · natter · schmooze · rapport

approach

icebreaker

Tension-easing social activity

greeting · break the ice · opening line · confidence · boldness · directness · nerve · approachability · first move · cold approach

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Opposites
social engagement

chat upignore

Refuse to notice

cold-shoulder · avoid · shun · give the cold shoulder · brush off

romantic/flirtatious intent

chat upreject

Dismiss as unsuitable

turn down · shoot down · rebuff · blow off · spurn

Family

up, chat, chatty, chatter, chats, chatting, chitchat, chatterbox, chatted

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Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG