break the ice

Initiate social interaction

To break the ice is to do or say something that eases tension or awkwardness in a social situation, especially when people are meeting for the first time.

The metaphor suggests penetrating a frozen surface to allow movement or flow underneath—in this case, the flow of conversation or connection.

An icebreaker is an activity or remark designed to accomplish this: The host suggested a game to break the ice at the party.

socialize

conversation starter

Initiates social exchange

openers · mingling · networking · rapport · engage · chat · dialogue · approach · meet · connect

ease tension

thaw

Return to liquid

lighten · loosen · soften · relax · calm · soothe · unwind · melt · reassure · defuse

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Opposites
social initiation

break the icekeep one's distance

Remain apart from others

clam up · hold back · keep to oneself · cold shoulder · rebuff

atmosphere/tension

break the icecast a pall

Spread gloom or dread

communication mode

break the icesay nothing

Refrain from speaking

keep mum · hold one's tongue · keep one's mouth shut · stonewall · shut down

Family

break, broken, breaking, breaks, unbreakable, icebreaker, icebreaking, unbreaking

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G