chalking something up to experience

Philosophical loss processing

To chalk something up to experience is to accept a failure or setback as a learning opportunity rather than dwelling on the loss.

The phrase suggests mentally recording the event on a tally board of life lessons: We lost money on the deal, but we're chalking it up to experience.

It implies moving forward without bitterness.

Related

life lessons · school of hard knocks · acceptance · introspection · resilience · forgiveness · letting go · silver lining · wisdom · self-awareness · growth mindset · self-improvement · self-reflection · water under the bridge · emotional regulation · lifelong learning · discernment · perseverance

Opposites
emotional response to setbacks

chalking something up to experiencebeating yourself up

ruminating · wallowing · holding a grudge · brooding · catastrophizing

attribution of responsibility

chalking something up to experiencepointing fingers

blaming others · holding a grudge · self-flagellation · taking it personally · making excuses

temporal orientation

chalking something up to experienceliving in the past

Fixated on former times

Family

chalking, chalked, chalks, chalkboard, chalkiness, experience, experiences, experienced, experiencing

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