blue in the face

Arguing without result

Blue in the face describes the state of exhausted frustration from prolonged, futile effort—typically arguing or pleading without effect.

The image is of someone who has talked so long they've run out of breath: You can argue until you're blue in the face, but she won't change her mind.

Almost always appears with "until" or "till."

futility

pointless

Lacking any purpose

hopeless · ineffective · unavailing · to no avail · wasted · unproductive · in vain · futile · bootless · for nothing

exhaustion

breathless

Lacking air, gasping

hoarse · strained · worn out · drained · spent · fatigued · depleted · exerted · overexerted · out of breath

frustration

exasperated

Intensely irritated, patience gone

fuming · fed up · impatient · aggravated · vexed · beside oneself · worked up · overwrought · agitated · frazzled

persistence

insistent

Firmly demanding attention

dogged · tireless · unrelenting · obstinate · tenacious · repeatedly · endlessly · incessantly · adamant · unceasing

Opposites
emotional state and effort

blue in the facecalm

Free from agitation

serene · composed · cool as a cucumber · unruffled · placid

persistence vs. acceptance

blue in the faceresigned

Yielded to circumstances

accepting · acquiescent · letting it go · surrendered · unbothered

intensity of expression

blue in the facesilent

Producing no sound

mute · wordless · tight-lipped · taciturn · saying nothing

Family

face, blue, surface, faced, blueprint, facade, facet, facial, deface

Familiarity
Top 100,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G