backhandedness

Compliment with sting

Backhandedness is the quality of being indirect, ambiguous, or insincere, particularly in compliments or remarks that seem positive on the surface but carry a veiled insult or criticism.

A backhanded compliment like You're so articulate for someone your age demonstrates this quality perfectly—praise that stings.

The term can also refer simply to the use of the backhand in sports like tennis, though this sense is far less common than the figurative one describing passive-aggressive communication.

compliment

left-handed compliment

Insult disguised as praise

ambiguous · patronizing · condescending · snide · sarcastic · ironic · sardonic · mocking · sneering · passive-aggressive

indirectness

insinuation

Indirect, usually negative suggestion

evasion · circumlocution · veiled · roundabout · allusive · subtext · equivocation · covert · tangential · sidestep

tennis

stroke

Sudden brain blood blockage

one-handed · two-handed · grip · crosscourt · groundstroke · volley · return · swing · follow-through · footwork

Opposites
sincerity of expression

backhandednesssincerity

Honest, unfeigned genuineness

genuineness · earnestness · candor · warmth · good faith

directness of communication

backhandednessdirectness

Quality of being straightforward

straightforwardness · forthrightness · plainspokenness · bluntness · frankness

Family

underhanded, underhand, backhand, forehand, backhanded, backhander, backhands, backhanding, backhandedly

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G