agonizer

One who tortures

An agonizer is someone who agonizes—dwelling on difficult decisions or painful situations with prolonged distress: She's such an agonizer; it took her three weeks to pick a paint color.

The word suggests excessive or unnecessary suffering over choices that others might resolve quickly.

torment

tormentor

One who causes anguish

sadist · oppressor · tormenter · affliction · ordeal · anguish · suffering · misery · distress · pain

decision

dilemma

Forced choice between undesirables

indecision · ambivalence · hesitation · deliberation · vacillation · crossroads · uncertainty · impasse · deadlock · paralysis

struggle

conflict

Opposition between parties

  • battleArmed military engagement
  • tensionStretched or strained state
  • strainExcessive stretching force

anxiety · stress · pressure · overwhelm · burnout · exhaustion · worry · nervousness · crisis · anguish

device

torture device

Object causing deliberate pain

weapon · instrument · implement

Opposites
emotional effect on others

agonizercomforter

Quilted bed covering

soother · consoler · reliever · healer · pacifier

decision-making style

agonizerdecider

One who resolves matters

go-getter · man of action · pragmatist

Family

agonizing, antagonize, agonize, agonized, antagonized, antagonizes, antagonizing, agonizes, agonizers

Familiarity
Top 1,000,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG