Pansy

Old-fashioned girl's name

A pansy is a garden flower with velvety, multicolored petals, often featuring a dark center that suggests a face.

The word is also a slur for an effeminate or gay man, or more broadly for someone considered weak or cowardly: Don't be such a pansy.

The insult draws on the flower's delicate appearance.

flower

viola

Midrange bowed instrument

petal · bedding · annual · biennial · purple · yellow · velvety · face · whiskers · cool-season

insult

wimp

Timid, feeble person

effeminate · timid · pushover · spineless · soft · unmanly · milquetoast · wuss · scaredy-cat · chicken

queer

gay

Attracted to same sex

pride · derogatory · epithet · camp · flamboyant · stigma · identity · LGBTQ · historical · pejorative

Opposites
MASCULINITY/TOUGHNESS (slang)

Pansytough guy

Intimidating, resilient person

macho man · bruiser · badass · hard man · hard case

flower type/hardiness

Pansycactus

Spiny desert plant

succulent · agave · thistle · yucca · perennial

COLOR INTENSITY (of flower)

Pansybaby's breath

Delicate filler flower

white lily · snowdrop · jasmine · gardenia

Phrases
Family

pansies

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG