effeminate

Softly feminine presentation

Effeminate describes a man or boy whose manner, appearance, or behavior seems feminine—soft voice, delicate gestures, interest in things culturally coded as womanly.

The word carries judgment: it implies something is wrong with men who don't perform masculinity conventionally.

His effeminate mannerisms invited ridicule from classmates.

The term is often used disparagingly, especially toward gay men, though effeminacy and sexual orientation are distinct.

unmanly

emasculated

Deprived of vigor

sissy · milksop · mollycoddle · spineless · timid · namby-pamby · wispy · meek · unmasculine · wimpish

feminine

womanly

Having feminine maturity

  • girlishYouthfully feminine in manner
  • ladylikeBefitting refined femininity
  • daintyDelicately small and pretty

coquettish · flirtatious · petite · graceful · delicate · mincing · simpering · lisping · swishy · campy

refined

fastidious

Excessively attentive to detail

  • fussyExcessively particular
  • dapperNeatly and stylishly dressed
  • meticulousShowing extreme attention to detail

elegant · polished · cultured · affected · precious · mannered · finicky · particular · overrefined · genteel

pejorative

pansy

Ornamental garden flower

  • fairyTiny winged magical creature
  • ponceMan exploiting prostitutes' earnings
  • cream puffAiry pastry, custard-filled

lightweight · weakling · pushover

Categories
Opposites
masculine vs. feminine presentation in men

effeminatemasculine

Male in character

manly · macho · virile · butch · manful

physical robustness/toughness

effeminaterugged

Tough and uneven

burly · brawny · muscular · strapping · tough

Family

effeminacy, effeminately

Familiarity
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Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG