throwing oneself at

Desperately seeking attention

Throwing oneself at someone means pursuing them romantically or sexually with aggressive eagerness, often to the point of appearing desperate or undignified.

The phrase suggests abandoning restraint or pride in the attempt to win someone's affection or attention.

She kept throwing herself at him even though he clearly wasn't interested.

The image evokes literally hurling one's body toward another person—an act both vulnerable and potentially unwelcome.

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surrendering · sacrificing · begging · seducing · coming on strong · striving · confessing · chasing · beg · desperate plea · shameless · love bombing · lunge · propositioning · pounce · desperate · hustling · going all in

Opposites
romantic pursuit intensity

throwing oneself atholding back

Preventing forward movement

playing it cool · brushing off · stonewalling

emotional availability

throwing oneself atwithdrawing

Removing or pulling away

retreating · stonewalling · rebuffing

initiative in pursuit

throwing oneself atsitting back

Leaning into a backrest

biding one's time

Family

throw, throwing, thrown, throws, thrower, oneself, selfhood, selfless, selfish

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