courting

Seeking someone's affection

Courting is the pursuit of a romantic relationship, especially with intent toward marriage.

The word sounds old-fashioned now, evoking a time of formal rituals and chaperones: They courted for two years before he proposed.

It can also mean seeking favor more broadly: courting investors, courting disaster.

The noun form is courtship.

romantic

wooing

Romantic pursuit of another

admirer · proposal · sweetheart · lovebirds · soulmate · boyfriend · girlfriend · partner · lover · crush

pursuit

chase

Rapid following of quarry

winning · vying · competing · persistence · determination · attention · advances · overtures · entreaties · beseeching

favor

seeking

Attempting to find

pursuing · winning · gaining · securing · lobbying · petitioning · appealing · ingratiating · flattering · wooing

tradition

rituals

Ceremonial repeated practices

matchmaking · arranged · chaperone · dowry · propriety · etiquette · debutante · coming-out · handfasting · blessing

charm

flattery

Excessive insincere praise

seduction · coquetry · allure · charisma · finesse · persuasion · sweet-talk · smooth-talking · beguiling · captivating

gestures

serenade

Outdoor romantic performance

  • bouquetArranged cluster of blooms
  • rosesThorny flowering shrubs
  • poetryMetrical literary composition

sonnet · candlelight · moonlight · gifts · chocolates · jewelry · rendezvous · tryst · date · dinner

Categories
Opposites
romantic pursuit

courtingrejecting

Refusing to accept

spurning · rebuffing · jilting · dumping · shunning

seeking favor or approval

courtingalienating

Causing emotional separation

antagonizing · repelling · offending · rebuffing · snubbing

risk-seeking behavior

courtingavoiding

Deliberately staying clear

evading · fleeing · shunning · escaping · dodging

Phrases
Family

courtier, courtiers

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G