coming on strong

Pursuing too forcefully

Coming on strong means being aggressively forward or intense, especially in romantic pursuit or persuasion.

Someone who comes on strong overwhelms with attention, flattery, or pressure: He came on strong at the party, and it made her uncomfortable.

The phrase can also describe forceful competitive momentum: The team came on strong in the fourth quarter.

Related

insistent · assertive · alpha male · flirtation · intense · turning up the heat · persuasive · going all in · overconfidence · bold · powerful · hitting on · overbearing · pressure tactics · dominance · urgency · domineering · full-court press

Opposites
romantic/social intensity

coming on strongplaying it cool

Affecting casual disinterest

holding back · giving space · treading lightly

persuasion/pressure style

coming on strongsoft sell

Non-aggressive sales technique

backing off · letting up

social demeanor

coming on strongkeeping a low profile

Avoiding notice deliberately

Family

comes, coming, comer, comers, strong, stronger, strongest, strongly, strength

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG