takes one to know one

Shared flaw acknowledgment

Takes one to know one is a retort suggesting that someone can only recognize a fault because they share it.

If you call someone a liar and they respond takes one to know one, they're accusing you of lying too.

The phrase implies insider knowledge—you spot the trait because you possess it yourself.

Often used defensively or as playground comeback.

Related

two peas in a pod · same boat · sarcasm · irony · similarity · recognition · defense mechanism · banter · jesting · verbal sparring · identification · assumption · finger-pointing · guilty conscience · hit a nerve · transference · repartee · attribution

Opposites
response type

takes one to know onemea culpa

Acknowledgment of personal blame

guilty as charged · I stand corrected · I admit it · point taken · I apologize

sincerity/deflection

takes one to know oneintrospection

Observing one's own mind

self-awareness · accountability · no excuses

attribution of fault

takes one to know onemy bad

Informal fault admission

Family

takes, taken, taking, takers, known, knowing, knower, knowers, knowledge

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G