surly

Ill-tempered and curt

Surly describes a bad-tempered, unfriendly manner—gruff and unwilling to be pleasant.

A surly teenager responds to questions with grunts.

A surly clerk makes you feel unwelcome.

The word suggests someone who could be civil but chooses not to be: The bartender grew surly as the night wore on.

grumpy

irritable

Easily provoked to annoyance

churlish · petulant · testy · peevish · cross · ornery · crotchety · tetchy · moody · bad-tempered

brusque

curt

Abruptly rude in speech

terse · ungracious · discourteous · snappy · short · rough · unfriendly · offhand · uncivil · impolite

sullen

morose

Sullenly ill-humored

sulky · gloomy · withdrawn · uncommunicative · silent · resentful · scowling · glowering · dark · sombre

hostile

threatening

Expressing intent to harm

antagonistic · unfriendly · combative · truculent · pugnacious · confrontational · quarrelsome · bellicose · contentious · fierce

defiant

uncooperative

Unwilling to assist others

recalcitrant · intractable · difficult · rebellious · resistant · disobedient · insubordinate · mulish · refractory · headstrong

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Opposites
demeanor and manner

surlyfriendly

Showing kindness, warmth

amiable · good-natured · affable · genial · cordial

emotional tone

surlycheerful

Pleasantly bright in mood

cheery · sunny · good-natured · friendly · jovial

Family

surliness, surlier, surlily, surliest

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G