ruffle feathers

Provoke someone's annoyance

To ruffle feathers is to irritate or annoy someone, especially by challenging their sense of importance or disturbing their composure.

The image comes from how birds bristle when agitated.

Often appears with negation when advising caution: Don't ruffle any feathers before the vote.

Someone who ruffles a few feathers provokes mild controversy, usually by speaking bluntly or disrupting the status quo.

Related

rub the wrong way · upset · agitate · get under skin · bristle · nettle · irk · vex · perturb · prickle · fluster · plumage · preening · smooth · hackles · preen · disturb · unsettle

Categories
Opposites
emotional effect on others

ruffle featherssoothe

Gently ease discomfort

calm · placate · pacify · mollify · reassure

social harmony

ruffle featherskeep the peace

Prevent discord or conflict

build bridges · mend fences · bury the hatchet · go along to get along · make peace

conformity to expectations

ruffle feathersplease

Polite appeal word

accommodate · ingratiate · kowtow · toe the line · play it safe

Family

ruffle, ruffles, ruffled, ruffling, feather, feathers, feathered, feathering, feathery

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G