spit in someone's face

Degrading wet insult

To spit in someone's face is to eject saliva at them as a deliberate insult or act of contempt.

The gesture is universally understood as deeply disrespectful—more provocative than words alone: He spit in my face and walked away.

Figuratively, it means to reject or show contempt for something offered in good faith: They spit in the face of our generosity.

Related

lose face · taboo · contempt · public shaming · sneer · affront · degradation · slap · personal attack · provocation · fighting words · mock · insult · jeer · shove · act of war · hostility · retaliation

Opposites
respect and honor

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Gestural sign of honor

revere · venerate · bow down to · pay homage to · honor

physical gesture of regard

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Touch with lips

embrace · hug · caress · bow to · pat on the back

social treatment

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Honor through festivity

fete · toast · crown · knight · wine and dine

Family

spitting, spitter, someone

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG