lose face

become publicly shamed

Lose face means to suffer a loss of reputation, dignity, or respect in the eyes of others.

The phrase emphasizes public perception—what matters is how one appears, not private feelings of shame: He couldn't back down without losing face.

Common in discussions of diplomacy and honor cultures where maintaining status is paramount.

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embarrassment · disgrace · reputation · damaged reputation · dishonor · mortification · social death · respect · credibility · misstep · faux pas · ignominy · stigma · infamy · discredit · eat humble pie · apologize · hierarchy

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Opposites
social honor/reputation

lose facesave face

Protect one's reputation

redeem oneself · make a name for oneself · come out on top · triumph · prove oneself

emotional experience of shame vs. pride

lose facehold one's head high

Feel no shame

walk tall

Family

face, lose, lost, loser, facing, faced, losing, facet, faces

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G