soul-sucking

Exhausting to endure

Soul-sucking describes something that drains your energy, enthusiasm, or will to live—typically a job, relationship, or situation that feels relentlessly demoralizing.

The image evokes a creature or force that literally extracts your spirit, leaving you hollow.

I finally quit that soul-sucking corporate gig.

The term is almost always hyphenated and functions as an adjective, though the underlying metaphor of having one's soul sucked out appears in various fantasy contexts.

work

draining

Depleting one's reserves

deadend · corporate · drudgery · overtime · micromanagement · fluorescent · commute · spreadsheets · meetings · thankless

existential

emptiness

Absence of substance

despair · nihilistic · joyless · bleak · hopeless · numbing · crushing · desolate · purposeless · spiritless

supernatural

vampire

Blood-drinking undead creature

  • wraithSpectral apparition of someone
  • specterGhostly threatening presence
  • leechBlood-feeding aquatic worm

succubus · demon · possession · dark · feeding · essence · lifeforce · draining · unholy · cursed

relationships

toxic

Capable of causing harm

gaslighting · draining · emotionally · vampiric · one-sided · needy · controlling · abusive · suffocating · demanding

Opposites
emotional/spiritual effect

soul-suckinginvigorating

Imparting fresh energy

life-giving · energizing · uplifting · revitalizing · rejuvenating

work/activity quality

soul-suckingfulfilling

Providing deep satisfaction

rewarding · meaningful · gratifying · satisfying · enriching

spirit and morale

soul-suckinguplifting

Emotionally encouraging

inspiring · heartening · encouraging · morale-boosting · heartwarming

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG