abusive

Prone to mistreatment

Abusive describes behavior that causes harm through cruelty, violence, or exploitation.

An abusive parent mistreats children.

An abusive relationship involves patterns of control or harm.

Abusive language is harshly insulting: The caller became abusive when told we couldn't help.

The word implies repeated or sustained mistreatment rather than isolated incidents.

verbal

insulting

Showing contempt through words

name-calling · mocking · belittling · taunting · ridiculing · denigrating · disparaging · haranguing · scolding · rebuking

coercive

controlling

Exerting authority over others

intimidating · overbearing · threatening · oppressive · authoritarian · tyrannical · dictatorial · heavy-handed · forceful · demanding

profane

obscene

Grossly offensive to decency

profane · lewd · coarse · expletive · swearword · filthy · offensive · X-rated · dirty · blasphemous

physical

violent

Involving physical force

assaulting · punching · kicking · slapping · shoving · bruising · injuring · attacking · aggressive · brutal

damaging

harmful

Causing damage or injury

injurious · ruinous · devastating · debilitating · scarring · wounding · traumatizing · toxic · poisonous · erosive

sexual

harassment

Aggressive, unwanted targeting

predatory · coerced · inappropriate · unwanted · groping · violation · misconduct · nonconsensual · perpetrator · survivor

Categories
Opposites
treatment of others

abusivenurturing

Supportive care-giving

kind · caring · gentle · tender · loving

verbal expression

abusivecomplimentary

Free or expressing praise

respectful · praising · polite · courteous · civil

use of power

abusiveprotective

Serving to guard

empowering · responsible · judicious · temperate · tempered

Phrases
Family

abusing, abusiveness, abusively

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG-13