ships passing in the night

Brief, unremembered meeting

Ships passing in the night describes a brief encounter between people who are unlikely to meet again, or a connection that fails to happen at all.

The image is of two vessels glimpsing each other in darkness before continuing on separate courses.

The phrase often carries a note of wistfulness or missed opportunity: We were ships passing in the night—one conversation at a conference, then nothing.

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star-crossed lovers · metaphor · momentary · expression · saying · idiom · chance encounter · crossing paths · estrangement · lost touch · acquaintanceship · separation · parallel lives · temporariness · divergence · impermanence · fleeting · missed connection

Opposites
duration and depth of connection

ships passing in the nightlifelong bond

Permanent relational tie

soulmates · kindred spirits · inseparable · bosom friends · joined at the hip

intentionality of relationship

ships passing in the nightcommitted relationship

Mutual pledge between partners

intentional community · chosen family · love at first sight · meant to be · settling down

duration of connection

ships passing in the nightlifelong friends

Companions since childhood onward

soulmates · life partners · childhood friends · old friends · till death do us part

Family

shipping, shipped, shipper, passing, passed, passes, passer, passable, passage

Familiarity
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