settling down

Finding permanent home

Settling down means establishing a stable, permanent life—typically by marrying, having children, or staying in one place after a period of movement or uncertainty: After years of traveling, she finally settled down in Portland.

It can also mean calming down or becoming quieter: The kids settled down after dinner.

The phrase often carries expectations about conventional adulthood: When are you going to settle down and get a real job?

Opposites
lifestyle stability

settling downwandering

Traveling with no fixed course

roaming · drifting · nomadic living · uprooting · moving around

behavioral calm

settling downacting up

Behaving badly or failing

getting worked up · stirring up · raising hell · kicking off · going wild

Family

down, settle, settled, settlement, settling, settler, unsettled, unsettling, unsettle

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G