self-possession

Unshakable personal equilibrium

Self-possession is composure and control over one's feelings and behavior, especially under pressure.

Someone with self-possession remains calm and confident when others might become flustered or emotional: She answered the hostile questions with remarkable self-possession.

The word suggests an inner steadiness—you possess yourself rather than being possessed by circumstances.

composure

calm

Free from agitation

coolness · serenity · balance · collectedness · aplomb · unflappability · imperturbability · sangfroid · coolheadedness · level-headedness

confidence

self-assurance

Confidence in one's abilities

aplomb · certainty · conviction · assertiveness · boldness · self-belief · self-reliance · dignity · pride · fortitude

restraint

self-discipline

Regulating one's own behavior

reserve · inhibition · willpower · continence · discipline · prudence · circumspection · discretion · decorum · propriety

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Opposites
emotional composure

self-possessionpanic

Uncontrollable sudden fear

hysteria · agitation · discomposure · perturbation · nervousness

confidence and self-assurance

self-possessionself-doubt

Uncertainty about oneself

insecurity · timidity · diffidence · awkwardness · self-consciousness

behavioral control

self-possessionloss of control

Inability to direct outcomes

wildness · erratic behavior · flailing · impulsiveness · recklessness

Family

possess, possession, possessive, possessed, self-control, possessor, possesses, repossess, dispossess

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G