self-deprecating

Humbly putting oneself down

Self-deprecating describes humor or remarks that belittle oneself, often to appear modest or put others at ease: His self-deprecating jokes about his cooking made everyone laugh.

The style can be genuinely humble or strategically disarming—a way to criticize yourself before others can.

Sometimes spelled self-depreciating, though purists object.

humility

unassuming

Not making claims

humble · meek · demure · reserved · diffident · retiring · low-key · bashful · timid · reticent

humor

deadpan

Expressionless, especially for humor

wry · droll · punchline · jokes · comedian · stand-up · roast · quip · banter · jest

psychology

insecurity

Uncertainty about oneself

perfectionism · vulnerability · deflection · defense mechanism · coping · approval-seeking · people-pleasing · inferiority complex · overthinking · inner critic

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Opposites
self-presentation style

self-deprecatingboastful

Given to self-praise

bragging · self-aggrandizing · vainglorious · arrogant · egotistical

self-regard expression

self-deprecatingself-glorifying

Excessively praising oneself

narcissistic · self-important · self-satisfied · smug · complacent

confidence expression

self-deprecatingself-assured

Trusting in oneself

confident · unapologetic · assertive · self-confident · brash

Family

self, depreciate, deprecate, depreciation, self-effacing, deprecatory, deprecating, deprecation, deprecative

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G