secret self

Inner private person

The secret self is the private inner person that remains hidden from others—the thoughts, desires, fears, and aspects of identity that someone keeps concealed, whether from shame, self-protection, or simply because some parts of consciousness feel too intimate to share.

Her poetry revealed a secret self at odds with her cheerful public persona.

The concept appears in psychology and literature as the gap between who we present ourselves to be and who we feel we actually are.

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Opposites
visibility/concealment

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Outward-facing identity presented socially

public image · outer self

social performance vs. inner truth

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Performed identity for others

social self · persona · façade · false self · facade

private vs. shared identity

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Self derived from groups

collective identity · reputation · common knowledge

Family

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