rubbing salt in the wound

Adding insult unnecessarily

Rubbing salt in the wound is making a painful situation worse, especially by drawing attention to it or adding insult to injury.

The image is of literal salt pressed into raw flesh—intensifying pain that already exists: Losing was bad enough, but having to watch the other team celebrate was rubbing salt in the wound.

Related

adding insult to injury · twisting the blade · digging the knife deeper · piling on · mockery · provocation · low blow · escalation · cruelty · condescension · taunting · insensitivity · shaming · throwing shade · making matters worse · disregard · instigation · antagonism

Opposites
emotional response to another's suffering

rubbing salt in the woundpouring oil on troubled waters

Calming a dispute

soothing · consoling · comforting · lending support · healing touch

effect on an existing problem

rubbing salt in the woundmaking amends

Compensating for wrongdoing

building bridges · burying the hatchet · letting bygones be bygones · water under the bridge · damage control

interpersonal conduct during hardship

rubbing salt in the woundhandling with kid gloves

Treating with excessive gentleness

biting one's tongue

Family

rubbed, rubber, rubbing, salted, salting, saltiness, wounds, wounded, wounding

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G