making amends

Righting past wrongs

Making amends is attempting to repair harm you've caused—apologizing, compensating, or otherwise trying to set things right.

The phrase implies acknowledgment of wrongdoing and genuine effort toward reconciliation: He spent years making amends for his past behavior.

In twelve-step programs, making amends is a formal step involving direct acknowledgment to those you've harmed.

Opposites
accountability vs. evasion

making amendsmaking excuses

Offering justifications for shortcomings

passing the buck · stonewalling · gaslighting · playing the victim · doubling down

reconciliation vs. estrangement

making amendsholding a grudge

burning bridges · severing ties · retaliating · getting even

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G