self-controlled

Master of impulses

Self-controlled describes someone who restrains impulses and emotions, maintaining composure under pressure.

A self-controlled person doesn't lash out in anger or give in to every craving: She remained remarkably self-controlled despite the provocation.

The term implies discipline and emotional regulation as character traits rather than momentary effort.

restrained

temperance

Habitual moderation in behavior

forbearance · continence · sobriety · inhibition · reserve · holding back · ascetic · frugal · abstinent · sparing

composed

calm

Free from agitation

unflappable · even-tempered · level-headed · unruffled · imperturbable · serene · tranquil · stoic · placid · equable

disciplined

temperate

Mild, avoiding extremes

regulated · consistent · meticulous · rigorous · measured · deliberate · structured · regimented · punctual · organized

willful

determination

Firmness of purpose

tenacity · fortitude · grit · steadfastness · inner strength · autonomy

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emotional regulation

self-controlledhot-headed

Prone to sudden anger

volatile · temperamental · unhinged · hysterical · irritable

behavioral restraint

self-controlledimpulsive

Acting without deliberation

uncontrolled · undisciplined · out of control · unrestrained · reckless

temperament/disposition

self-controllederratic

Lacking regularity or consistency

unpredictable · mercurial · capricious · unstable · manic

Family

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