put oneself out

Go beyond comfort

To put oneself out is to go to extra trouble or inconvenience for someone else's benefit.

The phrase typically appears in negative constructions or questions: Don't put yourself out on my account.

When someone says She really put herself out for us, they're acknowledging genuine effort or sacrifice.

The reflexive emphasizes that the inconvenience falls on the person choosing to help.

selflessness

altruism

Prioritizing others' wellbeing

benevolence · compassion · consideration · charity · helpfulness · thoughtfulness · giving · volunteerism · assistance · support

inconvenience

bother

To annoy or disturb

burden · strain · hassle · disruption · nuisance · hindrance · annoyance · disturbance · awkwardness · effort

hospitality

welcoming

Receiving others warmly

generosity · graciousness · reception · warmth · entertaining · invitation · cordiality · feast · banquet · sociability

Opposites
effort and inconvenience for others

put oneself outlook out for number one

Favor your own interests

take it easy · suit oneself · take the easy way out · shirk · coast

social engagement vs. withdrawal

put oneself outwithdraw

Remove or pull away

disengage · keep to oneself · mind one's own business · stand aside · keep one's distance

Family

puts, putting, putter, output, oneself, self, selves, outward, outing

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G