biting tongue

Holding words back

Biting one's tongue is restraining oneself from speaking—holding back words you want to say but shouldn't.

The image is of physically preventing speech: I had to bite my tongue when she criticized my work.

Usually implies the suppressed words would be angry, rude, or unwelcome.

The past tense bit my tongue is most common.

Related

pain · teeth · cheek · self-control · frustration · inner turmoil · suppression · wincing · metallic · taste · regret · secrets · diplomacy · anger · patience · unspoken · silent treatment · clenching

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Opposites
verbal expression

biting tonguespeaking freely

Talking without restraint

speaking one's mind · speaking up · sounding off · speaking out · telling it like it is

emotional restraint

biting tongueblurting out

Impulsive verbal release

losing one's temper · blowing up · lashing out · flying off the handle · exploding

social conformity

biting tonguerocking the boat

Causing unwanted disruption

stirring the pot · breaking silence

Family

bite, bites, bitten, biter, biters, tongue, tongues, tongued, tonguing

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G