playing coy

Acting falsely modest

Playing coy is pretending to be reluctant, modest, or unknowing—often to seem more desirable or to avoid committing to something.

Someone plays coy about their intentions when they deliberately withhold information: She's playing coy about whether she'll accept the job offer.

The phrase often implies flirtation or strategic evasiveness rather than genuine shyness.

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evasive · hard to get · bashful · false modesty · aloof · wink · blush · glance · sidelong · stolen glances · looking away · sly · hesitant · elusive · mysterious · batting eyelashes · batting · eyelashes

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Opposites
directness of communication

playing coytelling it like it is

Speaking plain, unfiltered truth

cutting to the chase · getting to the point · speaking frankly · speaking one's mind

romantic/social transparency

playing coywearing one's heart on one's sleeve

Displaying emotions openly

coming on strong · chasing

authenticity of self-presentation

playing coybeing oneself

Acting from true nature

being honest · showing one's true colors

Family

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G