telling it like it is

Unfiltered straight talk

Speaking bluntly and honestly, especially about uncomfortable truths others might avoid or sugarcoat.

The phrase usually carries approval—someone who tells it like it is is valued for directness rather than diplomacy: I appreciate that she tells it like it is, even when it's hard to hear.

Sometimes used defensively to justify rudeness as honesty.

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brutal honesty · rawness · veracity · plain-speaking · real talk · transparency · realism · integrity · authenticity · directness · cutting to the chase · sincerity · truthfulness · forthrightness · genuineness · openness · cards on the table · straightforwardness

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Opposites
directness of communication

telling it like it isbeating around the bush

Avoiding direct communication

sugarcoating · hedging · mincing words · pussyfooting · equivocating

honesty vs. deception

telling it like it islying

Stating known falsehoods

deceiving · misleading · spinning · dissembling · whitewashing

social consideration

telling it like it ishandling with kid gloves

Treating with excessive gentleness

treading lightly

Family

telling, tells, teller, retell, likes, liking, likeness, unlike, likely

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G