pinky promises

Linked finger swears

Pinky promises are pledges sealed by linking pinky fingers, typically between children but also used playfully among adults.

The gesture elevates a promise to something more solemn and binding: We made a pinky promise never to tell anyone.

Breaking a pinky promise is considered a serious betrayal of trust, at least within the logic of childhood oaths.

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secret handshakes · fingers · gesture · swear · commitment · guarantee · pledge · undertaking · honor system · honesty · trust · fidelity · playground · high-five · childhood · childhood innocence · bond · best friends

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Opposites
formality of commitment

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Enforceable agreements between parties

written contracts · blood oaths · treaties · affidavits · sworn testimony

reliability/seriousness

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Serious formal promises

blood pacts · marriage vows · Hippocratic oath · loyalty oaths

social context

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Legally enforceable commercial deals

diplomatic treaties · gentleman's agreements

Family

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Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G