pat on back

Wordless job-well-done gesture

A pat on back is a gesture of encouragement, congratulation, or approval—literally a light touch between the shoulder blades, figuratively any acknowledgment of good work.

To give yourself a pat on the back is to feel pleased with your own accomplishment.

The phrase often carries a slightly dismissive edge, suggesting the recognition is token or insufficient: All we got was a pat on the back and a thank-you email.

Related

approval · stamp of approval · recognition · well-done · kudos · attaboy · atta girl · bravo · gold star · shoulder · gesture · high five · comfort · reassurance · acknowledgment · support · affirmation · reward

Categories
Opposites
evaluation/feedback

pat on backcriticism

Judgment of faults

rebuke · reprimand · dressing-down · tongue-lashing · condemnation

emotional support

pat on backcold shoulder

Intentional dismissive treatment

dismissal · rejection · snub · brush-off · slight

physical gesture

pat on backslap in the face

Humiliating rebuke or rejection

punch · shove · kick · stab in the back · push away

Family

pat, back, pats, patted, patting, backs, backed, backing, backer

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G