leaving someone on read
Seen but unanswered
Leaving someone on read is seeing their message without responding, especially when read receipts show you've seen it.
The act broadcasts indifference or displeasure—you cared enough to read but not enough to reply.
It can be deliberate snubbing or just neglect: I asked him three days ago and he left me on read.
The phrase emerged with messaging apps that display read status.
- ghostingAbruptly ceasing all communication
- slow fadeImperceptible decrease over time
- instant messagingLive online text communication
- read receiptsNotification that message was viewed
- blue check marksSymbols confirming account authenticity
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