social expectations

What's considered proper

Social expectations are the unwritten rules about how people should behave in a given context—what to wear, how to speak, when to marry, what constitutes success.

They vary by culture, class, and era.

Someone who defies social expectations may face judgment or admiration depending on the circumstances: She rejected social expectations and traveled alone through her twenties.

The phrase often appears when people push back against conformity.

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manners · conformity · responsibility · compliance · mores · stigma · customs · unspoken rules · respect · propriety · dress code · judgment · saving face · fitting in · hierarchy · shame · gender roles · accountability

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Opposites
source of behavioral guidance

social expectationsself-determination

Control over one's fate

intrinsic motivation · self-direction · gut instinct · individual autonomy · personal autonomy

conformity vs. deviance

social expectationsnonconformity

Rejection of prevailing norms

rebellion · rule-breaking · transgression · defiance · anti-social behavior

formality of prescription

social expectationsanomie

Breakdown of shared standards

anarchy · anything goes · legal requirements · codified laws · lawlessness

Family

social, expect, society, expectation, expectations

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