injustice collector

Cataloguer of slights

An injustice collector is someone who catalogues every perceived slight, grievance, or unfair treatment they've experienced, often nursing these wounds indefinitely.

The term implies obsessive focus on being wronged rather than moving past offenses: He's an injustice collector who still resents a comment his brother made twenty years ago.

The habit typically poisons relationships and fuels resentment.

bitterness

rancor

Lasting bitter resentment

malice · vindictiveness · ill will · animosity · enmity · sourness · negativity · pessimism · misanthropy · jadedness

grievance-hoarding

grudge

Persistent resentment toward someone

accumulating · harboring · nursing · dwelling · brooding · ruminating · festering · stewing · simmering · seething

victimhood

persecution complex

Delusion of being targeted

wronged · aggrieved · mistreated · put-upon · scapegoated · marginalized · oppressed · disadvantaged · suffering · powerlessness

paranoia

distrust

Absence of confidence

watchfulness · wariness · defensiveness · misattribution · mind-reading · seeing patterns · connecting dots · hidden agendas · ulterior motives

retaliation

score-settling

Avenging past grievances

retribution · punishment · comeuppance · vengeance · settling accounts · evening the score · reciprocity · tit-for-tat · waiting game · biding time

Opposites
response to grievances

injustice collectorforgiver

One who pardons

water off a duck's back · reconciler · peacemaker · absolver

focus of attention

injustice collectorappreciator

One who values something

Pollyanna

Family

injustice, collector, justice, just, justly, unjust, unjustly, justify, justification

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