put-upon

Treated as doormat

Put-upon describes someone who is treated unfairly or taken advantage of, especially by being given too many demands or responsibilities.

A put-upon employee handles everyone else's work while receiving no credit.

The term carries connotations of quiet suffering or martyrdom—the put-upon person often feels exploited but may not openly complain.

She had that put-upon look of someone asked to stay late again.

exploited

used

Already been employed

unappreciated · overworked · undervalued · disrespected · trampled · doormat · pushover · long-suffering · abused · ill-used

victimized

scapegoated

Made to bear others' fault

persecuted · oppressed · martyred · maligned · singled-out · fall-guy · patsy · defenseless · helpless · vulnerable

burdened

overburdened

Carrying more than manageable

encumbered · laden · swamped · overwhelmed · pressured · harried · besieged · inundated · stressed · exhausted

Opposites
treatment by others

put-uponpampered

Lavished with indulgence

spoiled · coddled · indulged · cherished · respected

agency and power

put-uponempowered

Given power to act

assertive · in charge · unburdened · privileged · entitled

Family

put, upon, putting, puts, put-down

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G