home truths

Blunt personal feedback

Home truths are blunt, uncomfortable facts about oneself that someone else points out.

The phrase implies the recipient needs to hear what they'd rather avoid: She sat him down and told him some home truths about his drinking.

The "home" suggests these truths hit close to where you live—they're personal, not abstract.

Chiefly British.

candor

frankness

Direct, unguarded honesty

forthrightness · plain-speaking · unvarnished · outspokenness · plainness · sincerity · transparency · heart-to-heart · tactlessness · uncomfortable

realization

eye-opener

Startling piece of information

acknowledgment · acceptance · clarity · understanding · insight · sobering · dawning · disillusionment · self-awareness · hindsight

confrontation

criticism

Judgment of faults

challenge · accusation · reckoning · intervention · showdown · clash · friction · tension · defensive · pushback

introspection

self-examination

Scrutiny of one's thoughts

self-questioning · self-analysis · contemplation · self-awareness · reckoning · mirror · self-criticism · humility · growth

Categories
Opposites
honesty vs. deception

home truthslies

Deliberate untruths

falsehoods · deceptions · fabrications · white lies · half-truths

critical frankness vs. flattery

home truthsflattery

Excessive insincere praise

sycophancy · sweet nothings · empty praise · blandishments · soft soap

bluntness vs. tactful evasion

home truthseuphemisms

Mild terms replacing harsh ones

platitudes · polite fictions · sugarcoating · soft-pedaling · whitewashing

Family

home, truth, homes, homed, homing, homely, homelier, homeliest, homeliness

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Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G