soft soap

Oily, persuasive talk

Soft soap is flattery or smooth talk used to persuade or manipulate someone: Don't try to soft soap me—I know what you're after.

The term comes from the literal soft soap, a semi-liquid soap made with potassium hydroxide rather than the sodium hydroxide that produces hard bar soap.

The verb means to flatter insincerely or coax with charm.

flattery

cajole

Persuade through flattery

sweet-talk · blandishment · compliment · fawning · ingratiation · schmooze · charm · blarney · overpraise · smarm

cleanser

lather

Foamy soap bubbles

moisturizing · toiletry · emollient · unscented · dispenser

persuasion

coax

Persuade by gentle urging

manipulate · induce · entice · beguile · win over · disarm · prevail upon · talk around · bring around · work on

Categories
Opposites
intention/authenticity

soft soapstraight talk

Honest, direct communication

candor · honesty · frankness · sincerity · real talk

tone and manner of address

soft soapharsh criticism

Severe negative judgment

blunt talk · rough treatment · hard words · tongue-lashing · dressing-down

Family

soap, soften, softness, softened, softening, soapy, soaped, softener, soaping

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G