hold tongue

Keep from speaking

To hold one's tongue is to refrain from speaking, especially when tempted to say something inappropriate, hurtful, or unwise: I wanted to argue but held my tongue.

The phrase implies deliberate restraint—biting back words that might cause trouble.

Hold your tongue as a command is an old-fashioned way of telling someone to be quiet.

Related

button it · restrain · shush · keep quiet · quiet · suppress · repress · stifle · choke back · bite back · swallow · gag · muzzle · censor · secret · discretion · think twice · tactful

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Opposites
verbal expression vs. silence

hold tonguespeak up

Talk louder or opine

speak out · blurt out · talk · voice · express oneself

discretion vs. indiscretion

hold tonguespill the beans

Reveal confidential information

let slip · blab · divulge · reveal · tell all

self-control vs. impulsivity

hold tonguelash out

Attack abruptly in anger

explode · snap · fly off the handle · lose one's temper · go off

Family

hold, tongue, holds, held, holding, holder, holders, holdings, behold

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Top 200,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G