genteelness

Cultivated social grace

Genteelness is the quality of being genteel—refined, well-mannered, or affectedly proper.

The word often carries a whiff of pretension, suggesting excessive concern with appearing respectable or upper-class: Her genteelness seemed forced around his working-class family.

It can also describe genuine elegance of manner without the ironic edge.

manners

civility

Formal politeness in conduct

deference · respect · tact · diplomacy · decency · consideration · cordiality · affability · amiability · comity

propriety

decorum

Fitting social conduct

modesty · conformity · correctness · protocol · discretion · restraint · composure · formality · propriety · seemliness

refinement

cultivation

Fostering growth through care

  • eleganceRefined, graceful quality
  • graceEffortless beauty of motion
  • tasteFlavor perception ability

discernment · sensibility · polish · finesse · class · distinction · delicacy · sophistication · culture · breeding

Opposites
social refinement and manners

genteelnesscoarseness

Rough or vulgar quality

vulgarity · crudeness · boorishness · churlishness · loutishness

respect and courtesy

genteelnessrudeness

Disrespectful social behavior

discourtesy · impoliteness · incivility · disrespect · ungraciousness

social class markers

genteelnessimpropriety

Unsuitable or inappropriate behavior

casualness · informality · improperness · inappropriateness · indecorum

Family

gentle, gentleman, genteel, gentry, gentile, gentlemanly, gentility, gentlewoman, gentlemanliness

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