first message

Conversation's initial salvo

The first message is the opening communication in an exchange—the initial text in a chat, the start of a conversation thread, or someone's debut post on a platform.

On dating apps and social media, crafting a good first message carries special weight: I spent twenty minutes drafting my first message to her.

In online communities, a user's first message often determines whether they're welcomed or ignored.

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opening line · ice-breaker · conversation starter · text · inbox · notification · read receipts · conversation · stranger · dating · dating app · sliding into DMs · app · nervous · bold · connection · reaching · out

Opposites
position in conversation sequence

first messagereply

Verbal or written answer

response · answer · rejoinder · retort · comeback

conversation lifecycle

first messagesign-off

Formal ending gesture

goodbye message

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