find the lady

Card con game

Find the lady is a name for the three-card monte scam, where a dealer shuffles three cards face-down and the mark tries to track a target card—usually a queen.

The game is rigged through sleight of hand, making it impossible to win.

The phrase sometimes extends to any confidence trick involving misdirection: It's all find the lady with these guys.

scam

three-card monte

Sleight-of-hand street con

grifter · hustle · mark · sucker · sting · confidence trick · flimflam · street hustle · sharpie · cardsharp

gambling

wager

Stake on uncertainty

  • bettingStaking money on outcomes
  • oddsLikelihood expressed numerically
  • stakesPosts or wagers

ante · dealer · shuffle · cards · playing cards · queen · deck · house edge · luck · risk

street-performance

busker

Public-space entertainer seeking donations

spectators · lookout · accomplice · shill · pedestrian · passerby · urban · vendors · cardboard box · folding table

Opposites
fairness/legitimacy

find the ladysquare deal

Honest, equitable treatment

fair bet · fair play · state lottery · roulette · blackjack

transparency of outcome

find the ladyopen game

Unrestricted entry contest

player agency/skill

find the ladygame of skill

Contest won by ability

chess · poker · athletic competition · spelling bee

Family

find, finds, finding, found, finder, finders, lady, ladies, ladyship

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