fending

Keeping at bay

Fending is the act of warding off or defending against something.

It appears almost exclusively in two phrases: fending off means repelling or deflecting—fending off attackers, fending off criticism, fending off unwanted advances.

Fending for oneself means managing without help, taking care of one's own needs: The kids were left fending for themselves while their parents worked.

defending

parry

Defensive blade deflection

ward · counter · intercept · thwart · rebuff · stave · resist · hold off · beat back · turn away

survival

foraging

Seeking wild food sources

struggling · scrimping · improvising · adapting · enduring · persevering · making ends meet · getting along · muddling through · toughing out

self-reliance

independence

Freedom from external control

self-support · self-sustaining · bootstrapping · making do · getting by · standing alone · going solo · survival · coping · scraping by

Categories
Opposites
defensive action

fendingwelcoming

Receiving others warmly

embracing · accepting · receiving · inviting · admitting

self-reliance (fending for oneself)

fendingdepending

Contingent on something else

relying · freeloading · mooching

Phrases
Family

defend, defense, defender, defensive, defenseless, fend, fender, defence, fend off

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G