cruel joke

Mean-spirited gag

A cruel joke is a prank or deception that causes genuine harm or distress to its target, crossing the line from playful teasing into meanness.

The phrase also describes situations where fate or circumstance seems to mock someone: It felt like a cruel joke that she got the acceptance letter the day after the deadline.

Life's cruel jokes are coincidences so painful they seem deliberately timed.

Related

mean · vicious · twisted · sick · humiliation · betrayal · laughingstock · adding insult · bitter · sting · malicious · trick · hoax · schadenfreude · sneer · wound · barb · low blow

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Opposites
intent and effect

cruel jokeinside joke

Humor requiring shared history

dad joke · observational humor · pun · wordplay

emotional impact on target

cruel jokecompliment

Words expressing approval

affirmation · toast · tribute · blessing · warm welcome

intent and emotional impact

cruel jokeplayful banter

Lighthearted teasing exchange

gentle humor · compliment

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG